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Friday, May 18, 2007

Relationships

Thank you Mari and Liz for the support it's nice to know that you aren't alone. Liz thank you for the ideas I will definitely look into it!
Life has funny ways of teaching you lessons, I've recently learned that I need to be appreciative for all the wonderful things I have in my life. I have a wonderful little boy and a great husband. It may be hard not having a house or toys but all of these things mean nothing if you don't have your family.
I always like to start out positive before I go to the negative <: How in the heck did I end up with Beau? I love him I really do and he makes me laugh and is great with Isaac plus he's been working really hard lately for which I am grateful but man he knows how to push my buttons!!! I've been feeling very distant from him. He doesn't show interest in anything I do, he's very unappreciative and I am going to loose my mind. On Sunday he had to work which I am SOOOO grateful he's taking care of us but at what cost? He had the attitude he HAD to do something for Mother's Day even though he didn't...We haven't been out since Feb.14th. It's really bothering me that he rarely does something nice for me. It's almost like a chore for him then he wants "blankety blank".
I know that leaving notes or random stuff for him may be corny and not something he enjoys but at least I'm trying!!!!
The last time he bought me flowers was..... well I can't remember I'd say my birthday but he didn't MARI DID!!! The only reason we went out on Valentine's day was because he got free tickets to a hockey game!!!! (my first, it was fun but wouldn't of been my choice.)
I'm not looking for sympathy I just hope maybe someone that reads this will have some ideas or suggestions I am at my !@#*! whits end with him!!!!!
I feel better just writing it down this is a hard subject for us to talk about!! Well thanks for listening and thanks for all of your love and support it means alot!!!!! Love and wisdom............. Jeanna

6 comments:

Mari Contrary said...

Don't go to bed angry...
stay up and plot your revenge.

Mari Contrary said...
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Mari Contrary said...

You guys need a date. I would love to have Issac over!!
Dan and I go out weekly religiously. You just need that time together to work out the week and to HAVE FUN TOGETHER. It's so easy to get caught up in life and forget that you are more than just roomates.

katie said...

Jeanna.....just keep doing all the sappy lovey things to get his attention. Someone once told me to always do things for him first, no matter what. One day it will click and he will realize how good he has it. You may drive him crazy with notes, hints, foot rubs, etc. but it'll hit him one day. Just keep at it because guys are dumb. I know it's no excuse but just be extra concerned. One day he may just get it!

lizzie said...

okay, my idea may sound really lame but i think it could help. go to the library or something and get the book "the proper care and feeding of husbands." dr. laura can drive me crazy but she really has great ideas and such. i really think that every wife can benefit from this book--i know i did. sounds crazy, but...

Mari Contrary said...

Jean= hey I posted some picts of the party in the hood. (jungle jims). That was a lot of fun..